A lot to think about

Its a new year...and I have decided upon NO NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS...I will not resolve to have anything quick fixed for the month of January just to fall apart February 1st. I am having a little bit of a tough time right now...there are many things I don't understand and the places I want to be with people that I want to be with isn't whats happening. I don't understand what is going on right now but clarity; in some form or another; always comes. I think the hardest thing for me right now is the fact the my husband and I are always arguing...over nothing! It just seems like we are not understanding each other. It is very frustrating to work for so many hours during the week to come home to an emotionally cold space. I try to be a good wife, a good friend, but what good is it if the person you love doesn't really want to talk to you?